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Yeah, see it helps to be a cutter in order to enjoy blood play. I myself am not one, but I am with one. Its weird lol cuz I'd rather be cut. But I have had to learn to be the one to cut too because he enjoys it. It has also gotten him to associate the cutting with something sexual and with love...and one thing I have noticed since, he hasen't been cutting on his own anymore when things get to be too much :-) I don't expect those of you who aren't into this to get it. Because it is an out of the norm fetish. *shrugs*
As for your man, Ametc, he probably says that because he doesn't want to hurt you. lol Believe it or not, my cutter b/f was like that. He didn't want to hurt me. But I have told him time and time again that I get off on it and to not worry lol. You would have to get him over that part. Even create a "safe word" if it makes him feel better. I had to do that too. Only he doesn't know I never would use it lol.
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