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		 A teacher I had in High School put it in a much better fashion IMHO  
 
"You can do anyting you want, as long as you're willing to face the consequences" 
 
Choosing not to do something is of course, still a choice so this argues the same point as your brother, but from a different angle. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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