Out of all of them, the pretend rape scenario. Or, being "forced" to have sex. I absolutely LOVE rough sex, can't get enough of it. I will have to say most of the womens top sexual fantasies are something I'd like to try at least once. But, rough sex, just does it for me. I like the whole being spanked, have my face slapped, hair pulled, being choked....I am a total submissive lol. Pretty much, if the guy tells me what to do, I will do it, but only if he makes me *grins*
And of course with the guys that are worried about hurting me, I have a safe word. Not that I ever plan to use it haha! But it puts their minds at ease if they think I would use it if they hurt me. What they don't get is, it takes a lot to hurt me. I have never once used the safe word. My current man, I can tell is defiantely a submissive himself...but he loves to make sure I get off first. Its good in that way, but its taking awhile to get him to be more rough. I'm letting him take his time with it though, ease his way into it so that he is comfortable. :-) And eventually, I may top him...because I know he would like it. He just doesn't realise it himself yet.
All it took to know he would like it is when we play fought, I slapped him on the side of the face. And the look I got back, mirrored what mine always does lol. Gotta get out of my comfort zone I suppose for him if he will do the same for me :-) haha look at me, I slipped a little off-topic. Sorry about that
