My friend has been going to annual cervical exams since she was 13. Mostly because she was sexually active at that age. (Yeah young.. but at least she was smart about it.) She ended up having cervical cancer at the age of 16. She's never had any type of STD before and it doesn't run in her family. They caught it in the nick of time and she's been good ever since.
I'm very sensitive down there.. but I actually don't mind going to see a gyno.. guy or girl. I know there are some sickos out there... so I judge the doctor by how long they take looking down there compared to what they see.
First two visits were veryyy quick. I lied down and spread my legs and scooted down a little and they lubed me up and stuck the metal thingamajig in and widened the thingers (I dunno what it looked like or what it was called.. I'm going by feel).. they took a light and checked it out then lubed it more and stuck in two or one fingers for like ten seconds. They looked up at the ceiling or towards the ground while feeling around. Then.. they took everything out.. let me sit up.. told me everything was A-OK. Oh.. they also explained everything they were doing as they were doing it.
Most recent visit took a bit longer because she saw and felt something.. and results came back as low grade cervical cancer.
Not saying that there aren't doctors out there that are sickos.. my sister has met one that was drunk at a party she went to. He said some really vile things about patients he's had before.
But, if you really feel uncomfortable doing it.. then ask your doctor to tell you what he's doing or talk about something else to take your mind off your vagina.
Also.. the guys that don't go to the doctor unless an ambulance has to take them are dumbasses and those kind of men end up dying all because they didn't want a scope going up their ass.
Last edited by ametc; 03-30-2009 at 12:27 AM..
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