So I was sitting in the bedroom reading a book that my wife had bought (one of those sex books with hot pics) and I came across this little tidbit that had the top 20 male and female fantasies. So we did a little exercise to see which of ours were in the book and which ones weren't. So I thought maybe we could do the same thing on TFP. We'll see which ones have been done, or have been fantasized about and then if there are any that aren't in the book we could share those here as well. Sound fun? Of course it does!
So here we go...
Top 20 Male Fantasies
- Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner
- A threesome--usually joining 2 women
- Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)
- Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger
- Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women
- Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with
- Anal Sex 'nuff said
- Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate
- Sex in a public or risky place
- Being seduced by an older woman
- Seducing a Virgin
- Spying on two people having sex
- Having sex with a friend's girlfriend
- S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped
- Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc
- Sex with a sex worker
- Watching your partner being taken by another man
- Sex with another man
- Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise
- A "pretend" rape scenario
Top 20 Fantasies for Women
- Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with partner
- Sex with a man other than your partner
- Sex with a woman
- Sex with someone at work
- A threesome with two men, both fighting over your body
- Sex with a celebrity
- Being given expert oral sex
- Sex with a stranger--repairman etc
- Being found irresistible
- Being a sex worker
- Romantic fantasies--white sandy beach, hot men etc
- Being Deflowered
- Being watched
- Being forced to strip in front of a crowd of men
- Playing Mrs. Robinson and deflowering a male virgin
- Having an army of perfect men as sex slaves
- Being "forced" to have sex
- Starring in a porn flick
- Being seduced by an authority figure
- S&M--Tied up and spanked, whipped etc
As for me, I've had all of the male fantasies with exception to the rape scenario. I've never found that to be erotic at all. Since my nick here came from having sex with an older woman, well duh that's a natural one for me. I think while I do enjoy the 2 female threesome fantasy, I also enjoy the 2men 1woman fantasy more. Something about having a woman who loves the cock seems more exciting to me than 2 women together. Now don't get me wrong, I've experienced both and both were wonderful, and I love 2 women together, but I like the rawness of the 2 men 1 woman better.
So do you identify with any of these? Have you done any of these? I'd like to get the creative "juices" flowing so to speak and we can share what we enjoy as well as note the differences between how men and women work in the fantasy world.