I've dated 10 years older and 15 years younger. There were pros and cons to dating in either direction (and not the usual ones people think, either.) For the most part I prefer men within 5 years of me because we're both at the same stage in life, we have accomplished most of the same things, and are preparing for the same future.
That said, I think that the age difference isn't as big of a deal as the fact that you seem to have fallen in love with someone you've never met. There can be great emotional bonds forged online. I know. I have online relationships that span decades. However, when it comes to a longterm, romantic relationship, there is no substitute for meeting someone face to face.
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I can honestly say I love this man and truly would do anything for him.
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I can honestly say that this statement worries me. He only lives 90 minutes away and he's just coming to visit you now? Do you have verifiable information about who this man is and if he's been telling you the truth? I would say, reserve some judgment for meeting him and presumably beginning a real relationship together. Regardless of his age, I hope he's everything you believe he is and more, but I hope that you also have a little sense of self-preservation about how many of these types of relationships do not turn out so well.