Originally Posted by Shaindra

Well, to resurrect an old topic.

I've had big ones that equaled mediocre sex and average ones that were great. I prefer girth over length, but a little bit of extra on both is preferred. That said, I had a friend with 9" + girth. The cock itself was fun. But the man left a lot to be desired as a lover. He was also older and needed a lot of stimulation to get anywhere. Too much work. I've also had some guys who managed to pound me and hurt, even with smaller sizes. I think some of them are proud of that ability. :-/

I had one that was 5.5" or so. He was much younger than me and very insecure about his size. I reassured him that he was actually average and that, in fact, he was one of the better lovers I've ever had...including older and presumably more experienced guys. This one was a true giver. He loved getting me off and that made it a lot of fun. And something about the way he worked the angles made full use of what he had. He was grateful for the positive feedback.

My personal ideal is about 8" and fairly large girth. Too much longer and giving BJs is impaired. But the best cock is the one that is there and ready to go when you want it. ;-)