I think this idea of "damage" that sex videos can do is a bit ridiculous honestly. Unless you're with a mistress or something else, I don't think it's that big of a deal. My boyfriend is of this opinion though, so as of now, we haven't really video taped anything. We have photos that tend not to stick around long but that's it.
That said, I've video taped myself before, and I've used web cams to send videos to other people. If someone wants to make a big deal about finding videos of me, I'm happy to discuss it with them but I have a feeling it won't really be an issue for me. I've never recorded anything illegal so why is it so bad?
The appeal to me is exhibitionism. Plus, the personal stuff is the best type of porn for me. The appeal has little to do with whether it's on the web or not. I like to be able to go back and watch videos of myself and my partner. It's an immediate gratification that yes, this is being recorded; but it's also great after the fact.
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