Whatever you do, please postpone your marriage until you have resolved this issue. Your future wife doesn't deserve this. Neither does your present fiancee, but I know you're addressing that already. I highly recommend counseling specifically for this issue, individually for you and additionally for both of you as a couple.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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