With a stunning 37-0, I think we've conclusively shown that you did the right thing.
I really don't have much more to offer other than if you haven't watched "Deliver Us From Evil" you ABSOLUTELY MUST. It's about O'Grady and the things he did as a priest that were absolutely disregarded and blatantly covered up by the Catholic Church.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deliver...il_(2006_film)
Many of the victims talk about that same feeling; betrayal by the Church - that it would protect those that wronged them, and yet refuse to help them. I think you might find some brotherhood and understanding from it.
Your faith is what is important; the behavior of many in the Catholic church is anything but Godly.
I think you made the right decision about your child, too.