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Originally Posted by starbum
1. I guess what I needed most was someone to say that I wasn't the bad guy - that there were other people out there. I'm disheartened that people automatically assumed that she would cheat - it seems like the whole world has become pessimistic about marriage.
2. I should clarify the "training"statement - it was not something intentional. What I meant by it was - we struggled with it for awhile and through communication we found compromises. We're both doing our best to re-establish the sexual relationship - the "training" was to reduce pressure on me. We had thought that by reducing the pressure, it would come more naturally. As I have found - that as she reduced the pressure, I found more time to find porn.
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1. yeh yeh pity party, wah wah. ok dude here is the thing YOU ARENT MARRIED YET! im not pessimistic about marriage. i just know that the only reason for any relationship is the fulfillment of a need. as base as that sounds its actually quite beautiful. hence the term two become one. (note: that trust and love are also needs lest ye misinterpret my meaning).
2. this woman obviously loves you very much, you obviously cant see that. if you can see more depth in downloading porn than her she must be a 2x4. honestly man even if you arent attracted to her physically there must be some time where she says or does something that just gets you going. if not either you are or she(or both) is as 2D as mickey mouse. either way not a healthy relationship.