To answer the question, you kind of have to create the moment. Sitting around passively waiting for 'the Right Time' means you'll never do it. Wait until she indicates she's ready and just go for broke.
My first kiss with Magpie is one of our funny stories. We went out to a movie, then went back to what was then my apartment. We had the right moment, I could feel that vibe... then, just as I was leaning in, my computer made a noise and she jumped. Moment ruined.
So I just told her I wanted to kiss her. She said okay, and that was that.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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