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Originally Posted by northstar
Seems to me like you tried to play the game a little bit, perhaps if this man was extremely impressive you would have gone for him? The appropriate thing would have been to call/message him and say that you wanted him to know that this wasn't a date but that you two were friends and you were looking forward to having a great time. That would have put him in a different frame of mind for the night and both of you at ease. Instead he was left guessing.
When a single man and single woman get together and the single man is attracted to the single woman...etc.
As for now, you really don't owe him anything, unless you consider him a friend you want to hold onto or just someone you'd like to see again.
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No, I didn't play a game, but thanks. Why would you assume that. Maybe he was playing a game with me, or is it always the default to put the blame on the woman? Maybe he should have stated his intentions up front? No? I stated mine.
And it doesn't sound like you read my posts on this thread.