Yeah, it was a date to him. If you have any heart, I'd get in touch with him and say something along the lines of, 'hey, I was getting an odd vibe from you the other night. I don't want things to go unresolved or become strained between us, so I want to tell you that I'm not that into you in that way.' Something along those lines anyway.
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If I'm interested a guy will know that explicitly and if not, then I don't want to deal with the bullshit of his hope that the relationship will be something else while we're carrying on the facade of a platonic friendship.
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So if you're interested, he'll know it explicitly, but if you're not he should just take a clue and buzz off. Frankly, that is BS. If you are explicit about showing your interest, be explicit about showing your disinterest as well.
Nothing wrong with hanging out as friends. But once you were getting the vibe that he was into you, yeah, you should have addressed it. The poor guy probably spent most of the night thinking that he was doing something wrong for you to not be responding.
And the raised eyebrow thing? We're guys. We don't pick up on body language and subtle cues as well as women do. You may have thought you were telegraphing your thoughts very clearly, but I'm pretty certain that it didn't reach the other side of the table.