Well, I didn't mean to give the impression that I was all freaked out about this. It's just that I literally don't know if there is a protocol for these things. It's all good.
And he is not a creep or a jerk at all so I am not concerned about him acting out of turn. It's just the timing of the thing set me off a bit, with my recent break-up.
I do intend to have fun. I'm very excited about the whole thing.
Thanks, guys.
oh, and Tippler I don't really see him as date material, in fact, it's just the opposite...if I did think of him as date material I wouldn't be concerned at all. I don't want to get into why that is because it wouldn't be respectful, just suffice it to say that it has nothing to do with his appearance or personality and everything to do with the fact I don't click with him that way.