I think that you need to confront him about this directly. Don't beat around the bush. Losing your significant other is a tough thing, and if you're meant to be together you can work through the problem, even if it means you are apart. But don't forget that if he continues to do these habits, you'll lose him anyways, in a much worse, much more painful, possibly deadly way. I think making a strong stand is the only way to save this situation. If he really loves you and sees how hurt that you are from this, then something will give.
Much love, good luck.
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