We see our own failings magnified in others. The unfaithful will assume everyone else is unfaithful, the liars will assume others are liars, and so on.
He wants you to cut off contact from men, because he cannot believe anyone can have opposite gender friends without sex. This tells you a lot about how his friendships with women work.
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Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
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