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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
I have many lady friends still. I see some of them from time to time. My wife sometimes even joins us. Heck, my guy friends, my wife hangs out with from time to time without me and has her own relationships with them that have nothing to do with me.
This is all based on trusting the other individual.
Why should you pay for his baggage of a previous cheating woman? This isn't fair to you.
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My guy and I both have friends of the opposite sex--some of my best friends when we met were men, and some of his close friends are women. It doesn't bother him when I hang out with guys, and it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with women. We trust each other. We're open and honest with each other--there's no reason not to trust one another.
If he had told me when we started dating that I couldn't hang out with my boys any more, I would have kicked him to the curb. My boys had been in my life a lot longer than he had at that point.
What are your priorities? Living your life for yourself or for him? A life lived for someone else is not really a life at all, is it? And a relationship without trust isn't really a relationship, is it?