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I'd have to call you a shitty friend then. Seriously, why should my SO detract from my friendships? Shouldn't my friends enhance the relationship by wanting to spend time together meeting and enjoying everyone as a groups?
Maybe your men friends aren't honorable at the heart of things. Thinking they are either being the nice guy and hoping one day you'll wake up to that fact they have unrequited love for you.
Maybe your men friends want to bang you like a screen door in a hurricane and are just waiting for the opportunity for you to drop your panties for them.
Or maybe these male friends are truly friends, enjoying your company and time together.
If it is the latter, why would you be a bad friend and just ditch someone who hasn't done anything wrong in the friendship.
I'd have to wonder about myself what kind of friend I was being if I was just going to make a conscious decision to stop hanging out with my friends. Note there is a difference if you find yourself busy and just don't have time for them. But to make a conscious decision? That's a shitty friend I'd be and I don't deserve ANY friends if that is how I'd treat them.
I have many lady friends still. I see some of them from time to time. My wife sometimes even joins us. Heck, my guy friends, my wife hangs out with from time to time without me and has her own relationships with them that have nothing to do with me.
This is all based on trusting the other individual.
Why should you pay for his baggage of a previous cheating woman? This isn't fair to you.
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