Haha, that video is priceless. Yea, I can remember getting to that point of numbness a time or two, now that he mentions it.
Um, my current perception is probably colored a lot by my current situation.
I lovvve getting head (I'm male).... and my wife is pretty good at it - so I'd say it's pretty easy for her. The only thing is, the tongue has to be on the UNDERSIDE of the penis. Thus 69 doesn't work so good for me (Other reason is nose-in-ass).
She on the other hand, doesn't really favor it so much, for some reason. Makes me sad, because I love it, and the intimacy it seems to imply. I thought I was pretty good at it -- totally surprised my 16 yr old girlfriend years ago by bringing her off that way the first time she gave me the chance. But my wife has always preferred penetration more.... so when I do do it, there are fingers involved. I can usually get her off or most of the way there - generally I'll do that and then move to intercourse because that's her preference. So I never have to get tired of it. (BTW, I have probed to find out if I'm doing something wrong, and nothing has come to light).
Really, I love to do it (eat pussy) as long as I can, as long as the woman is responding. I feel it's particularly tough on women who are sucking a guy off if they really don't like cum in their mouths. I have come across women who were scared of getting a mouthful, and got very nervous about it - that's probably a turnoff for both of us, at that point, at least from my perspective.
I would think, long-term, if you had to go at your SO so long you got numb, and it never got any better, I might question sexual compatibility, at least in that area. I hope for most people, endurance and receptiveness to your loved one's touch would eventually meet in the middle. After all, if your loved one really turns you on, it should get easier. Then again, I cum fairly quickly, so have never really jibed with a woman that needed 30 or 40 mins of intercourse (or other genital stimulation) to get off.
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