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Originally posted by denim
They say it's about respect, but they're willing to jump on people who aren't even being offensive just because they might be! That's acceptable to you?
This is to everyone: read what people actually say. Don't add what they're not saying. Your interpretation should not bend your understanding of what they actually say. If you're not sure, ask! There is time, honest.
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Standing up for something you believe in can sometimes lead to being a bit sensitive to the subject as I am sure you know.
I try never to read things into what people say and take what they mean at face value but like everyone I have previous experiences that lead to conclusions about certain types of statements.
You are right. It is always best to get a clarification of what the person truly meant but I have found that people often try to pass off something as a joke or as unoffensive when they realize that people are reacting intensely.
Being reasonable and intelligent takes patient understanding on both sides.