of course you want to be yourself. but beyond that, just realize that there's a certain percentage of both nice guys and assholes that seal the deal at the end of the night. the "just-friend" nice guys and the boorish assholes are both left on the outside looking in. so no matter who you are, if you want to be a version that is successful with women, then become that through study, practice, and intuition.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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