Hyacinthe

Don't be - it's a RL issue that starts my hissy fit in the 'nice guy' issue you were just unlucky enough to cop some of the vitriol I want to take out on the guy in question.

Don't be shy I agree with that. What you need to do is realise that you are deep down a person that is worth knowing. That you have something to give to people who prove themselves worthy of your friendship. Once you realise that it's alot easier to be yourself.

Don't concerntrate on being 'nice' concerntrate on what you want, what will make you happiest. Sure you might loose a few girls when you voice your opinion and they can't get over the fact that it's different to theirs but the ones that stick around will either be mature enough to see you as a sepesrate individual with the right to feel and think the way you do or will agree with you leading to a longer happier relationship for the both of you.

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"Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."