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Originally Posted by noodle
Not necessarily, right. Someone who really loves you should always tell you like it is.
Do you want her to lie and tell you you did great if she doesn't believe it?
The situation was fucked up from what it sounds like.
But ratbastid is right, she wasn't there.
You called her, described the situation and she gave you her response.
If it wasn't the one you wanted, tough. That's the way relationships work.
You need to talk this out if it continues to bother you or accept that her response is hers. Period.
In my opinion.
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True, we don't always get the responses we expect or want. It's tough. I wrote the OP to get others opinions because I expected one response and got something different and it hurt. So I wanted to see if what I felt was normal.
Relationships are tough and understanding one another takes effort, time and hard work. This is an example of that. I wanted to see if I was right in being hurt, in any relationship you get hurt and you have good times.... you just hope the good outweighs the bad.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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