you need to be more of a fan of yourself. that means taking all the time and thought and energy you were pouring into her and finding a way to channel it into yourself. go ahead and mourn... make a cape out of a sheet and sing journey and dave matthews songs in your room.... but get it out your system and be done with it. what was "boyish" when you were younger can be turned into aging well now that you're older.
talking to people and girls and being social is just like learning a new video game or how to paint or play a guitar. you can read about it, practice it, and get better at it. do so, and you'll feel a million times better.
when you become a fan of yourself, you'll be surprised how fast you pick up other fans, especially groupies.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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