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Originally Posted by guccilvr
You can be a nice guy and still have pride and your own opinions.. just as you can be an asshole and still do nice things for your girl.. it's just about being what you are and finding someone who is compatible.
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Pretty much.
My guy does a great job of striking the balance between being the consummate nice guy AND having a spine. When I'm spouting BS, he tells me, flat-out. I like that. But I also like that when I tell him I'm not in the mood for harshness and I need him to be the nice guy, he is.
You can be a nice guy without being a doormat, but ultimately, what you need to be is yourself.