.. I think girls just want a man to be who they are..
if it doesn't click with a certain one, then find another, everyone has different tastes, but it's kind of pointless to try being something you're not.
A thing about nice guys is that the stigma is that guys who are nice and do anything don't have a spine. They just crumble to anything their girl demands and basically lose any pride they have. I think in most cases this is bullshit. Although, I've seen it happen .. my BIL never puts his full opinion on anything, never stands up for himself, just does whatever she says to 'make her happy' and that's just as much bullshit as trying to be something you aren't.
You can be a nice guy and still have pride and your own opinions.. just as you can be an asshole and still do nice things for your girl.. it's just about being what you are and finding someone who is compatible.
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