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OH MY GOD!
I get so tired of these posts I really do, "I'm a nice guy but girls want an asshole"
That's not true anymore then me saying that all guys want whores
Some girls want assholes, some girls want nice guys, other girls don't want guys at all
You want to know what women really want? They want someone that will match them in their lifes desires, in their humour and interests, someone who can share their hobbies and dreams and fears and every aspect of their life.
Has nothing to do with how nice you are because niceness can be faked. All those sites out there talking about how horrible nice guys are? Guess what they're all written by complete dicks who pretended to be a nice guy then got pissy when the girl they were trying to con saw through it and went for someone less nice on the surface but more true to themself. Rather then blaming themself and their approach to the situation they decide that girls want assholes and blame the woman in question.
My advice, stop trying to appeal to women as a whole, everyone is different and they will all find different things attractive. Be who you are and find a woman who can love you for that person, not who you have the potential to fake being.
On the other hand if you're just trying to get laid sure be an asshole - walk up to women and just say "how about you and me head to bed" just be prepared to be shot down or even slapped alot.
PS - I'm sorry but the entire niceguy idea frustrates the hell out of me on a personal level - I don't mean to be so harsh, specially not to new member who I actually do want to come back!
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"Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."
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