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She wasn't there, dude. She doesn't get it. That's okay. Relax.
They were just words. You're the one doing the concluding about her respect for you. All your "should" about her doesn't make any difference at all, except to raise your blood pressure.
And you know that, really, from your 12-step work. But sometimes we need to be reminded, and that's not a problem either.
Sorry about the incident, but it sounds to me like you handled yourself well. Have you got it set up with the police to keep an eye on the guy, and to watch your back for a while?
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