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Originally Posted by sadienielson
I've been in nearly this exact situation. (woo, first post after lurking for ages), only it was 3500 miles. We're still patiently waiting, after a year and a half, with one month-long visit in the interim. Some people are worth waiting for, but you have to be absolutely open with each other to keep the trust there. It's easy to get jealous over that distance and its death for the relationship. If you are settling in for the wait, its worth asking.....you've talked to her on the phone and/or via webcam, so you KNOW she's what she's claiming to be, right?
Also, skip the strip club. They're lame.
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Nice to see someone in the same thing with positive results thus far.
Yeah, we actually had a huge fight over me not trusting her... She acts like I was supposed to believe her in everything she told me, and to be honest, I didn't, because she's still a stranger over the internet that I've never met, but she did have like, 90% of my trust. So, she's pissed at me and told me that she can't do this if I don't trust her, but I told her I trust her fully now. She's still pissed though, and said this is my last chance (because I've screwed up before too). This is so hard, and I feel sooo bad that she's been trusting me 100% and I haven't. Ugh...