I almost ruined my current relationship by admitting I thought I was beginning to love the guy.
In all honesty though I can understand why, we started out as FwB and you all know my "you start to like them as more then that and you end things immediately" outlook.
Thing was we were already beyond that stage at the time, I'd met his family, he'd met mine, I was staying over there ALOT and the like, we were already a couple and just in denial about it.
I immediately followed up with a "sorry, I know you probably don't feel the same and I don't expect you to but I thought you should know. "If you want to end things I totally understand."
So his response was along the lines of "I don't know if I love you yet but I know I care about you far more then I would if I considered you just a friend"
I was fine with that.
I think when it comes to saying you love someone honesty is definitely the best policy.
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"Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."
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