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Do swingers care about the other people, besides what they look like?
If you could only swing with the same 2 or 3 couples, would it be ok?
Do you think that swinging could be a long term thing for you?
If someone has had multiple partners (only one at a time) during their dating life, does it make them more likely to be able to separate bonding emotions from sex?
Is swinging a way to cope with a fear of being hurt again from a cheating partner?
Would you rather swing with people you have never met before, or with a couple you have been friends with for a few years?
I am fascinated at the idea of swinging, but I don't think I would be able to be in this type of relationship right now. It is fun to think about, but I would still equate love with sex. Now, if it was a small group of friends, let's say 3 or 4 couples who were all very similar in their views, I could see it working. But, still I think I would need to have 1 or 2 regular relationships first before I would feel comfortable sharing. But, then it turns into that this partner is no different from the next, what is the point of swapping if it's just going to cause tension and drama?
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