james t kirk

The woman I've been dating and I have recently discovered the joys of Swinging. (Prior to that, I guess I could have been classified as a serial monogamist who cheated from time to time, or not, depending....)

I must say, I'm a convert. We've been frequenting 2 swingers clubs in town where they only allow couples in and at some point you end up in the back room naked with other people having sex all around you.

Both she and I really enjoy it and we're both surprised just how much we do and look forward to it.

I figure that something like two thirds of all women cheat anyway, so why not just make it into a positive. In this way, we each get to get our ya yas out whilst the other is 3 feet away with someone else.

It's kind of thrilling to watch her get fucked by another guy to tell you the truth.

Ironically, it's made our relationship one of the strongest I've ever had. We're committed to each other, we just like to have sex with other people (in front of each other.)

I'm a believer. I truly believe that I'd never want to be in a conventional relationship ever again. If the woman I am dating now and I ever were to break up, I'd seek out another woman open to the idea of a swinging lifestyle.