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Originally Posted by Mirth
We "met" 5 months ago, so it's been a little bit. I'm a bit strapped for cash because the school is taking all of my money, and I'd really feel weird going 1200 miles to meet someone I've never met, just for her alone. And then I'd have to find a hotel an everything because I couldn't stay at her place with her mom and siblings because we just met. I think it's not weird for her to come down here because she has a reason other than me; her father that lives down here, but it'd be weird for me to buy her a plane ticket to do so, and too expensive; plus she has school too now.
I guess I'm just going to wait it out again, which I've been doing for the 24 years of life already...
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1200 miles is two days of interstate driving. Gas is relatively cheap now so you could probably get there for less than you spent at the strip club. Unless her parent's are overly strict they'd probably let you stay on the couch for a few days so I wouldn't rule out a spring break visit.
It's good that you had a fun time at the nudie bar and it made you feel manly and confident but once you're actually in a sexual relationship you'll realize what a lame and pathetic version of sexuality is sold at strip clubs. You've probably already told her about it but if not you are in no way obligated to do so. Some women are into it and will go with you, which can be a lot of fun; but most women are willfully ignorant or silently permissive when it comes to strip clubs. They know guys go to them, they know what goes on, but they don't want to hear about it.