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Originally Posted by Strange Famous
One of them called me a fat shit.
-I didnt jump the guy or hit him when his back was turned, but no - it wasnt self defence - I started it.
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Nope. You didn't start it. He did by insulting you. give it whatever label you'd like, but in the real world in general public there are certain things that will get you punched or beat down if you say them to someone.
in fact, as someone who was constantly bullied in the shoolyards myself, i can tell you looking back that i ate myself up inside when i DIDN'T defend myself when i was younger. it's not like i look for fights, but i can tell you the handful i've been in, i know i would have felt even worse having not done anything even when my ass was the one kicked.
if it helps, just think of all the people out there that think "that douchebag's gonna say that to the wrong guy and get some instant karma".
You were that wrong guy and you doled out some instant karma that day.
having said all this doesn't change anything if you're having trouble with your own emotions and people are seeing signs of it from your facebook page etc.... get the help you need for that. just jump out your comfort zone and do it.
but as for that day, from what you've said, you got the green light from my chair.