I'd want the guy to be honest with me. If he really likes me but is not feeling the love yet, say so and let me know if its a possibility he could love me or not. No one wants to waste their time or affections if there is no hope of reciprocation. Or I suppose you could just say I love you back and hope the feelings really do develop but I think that's asking for trouble.
I was so nervous to tell im2smrt4u that I loved him since we had only been dating about a month I said "I think I love you". Thank god he made it easy on me and just said "I love you too!" LOL its kind of our on going joke.
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