As a male, I have always enjoyed eating at the "Y" and I think the women were pleased too. It is a way to get the juices flowing and I want to make sure my partner is aroused (and hopefully gotten off a few times) before I enter her.
As for receiving head, well, I'm not a young man, and had never received head until I met my current girlfriend. Unfortunately, my reaction was taken the wrong way, honest, it felt great. I guess my preconceived notion was that girls just didn't want to do that (I guess I got that from too many pictures of girls being forced to do something they didn't want to do, basically being treated like a piece of meat). So my girlfriend has refrained from giving me head, thinking I don't like it. We did discuss it and hopefully we will visit that area again sometime soon.
Whether it is easier for the male or female, who can really say? A lot has to do with each participant and their reaction to giving or receiving.
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