It depends on the girl and relationship. If she claimed to be monogamous when we started dating then I would have a problem with it because she betrayed her sense of morality, and lied to me. If she was polyamorous or a swinger and we talked about it from the beginning I would not have a problem with it. As long as I know she is in love with me and isn't spending more time with others than me. I guess it also depends on who she was with and if she knew they didn't have any std's.
I would say the same for being with other guys as well. It depends on her, her sense of morality, and the type of relationship. Either way though if it's not monogamous it would be nice to know who she is sleeping with before walking in to find her.
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