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i would come to the conclusion that there's some unbridgeable chasm between male and female thinking on this issue, but ratbastid seems to get it.
"Despite the fact that every sex therapist, shrink, TeeVee doctor, and magazine from Cosmo to Men's Health says that partners on the rocks shouldn't cut off sex activities, women sometimes do it anyway because they figure it's a real attention-getter for the man in their life. I could be wrong, I read somewhere that women enjoy sex as much as men despite the fact that their urges are more emotional instead of more "animal.""
again pointing out that women need the emotional turn-on yet failing to connect the lack of emotional turn-on in a relationship with lack of sexual desire. some women use sex as a weapon for sure (so do some men), but projecting that onto every instance of a woman not flipping onto her back on command is just the tiniest bit lazy and self-centred.
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