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Do you ever masterbate? If not, maybe you should start having a little bit of private time. Even if it feels like a chore at first, if you take the time and try to enjoy it, you may find that you can view yourself in a more sexual way.
Also, I have found that when I go without sex I don't usually have as much of a craving for it. When I do have sex more often, I tend to want it more. I'm guessing it has something to do with the hormones that are released when you have sex.
Also, see how your partner feels about having an intimate time WITHOUT the sex exactly. Perhaps it's the pressure you feel about actually having sex to 'please him' when you should BOTH be able to be pleased. I'm sure he wants to please you too, maybe you can try to accept that pleasure as a gift from him.
Last but not least... If you are on antidepressents there are two things working against you. 1. Depression is frequently associated with lower sex drive - maybe you need to see your Dr abou tweeking the meds to reduce any depression symptoms that could be causing thing. or 2. Depression meds can cause low libido (as you mentioned) and your Dr could tweek your meds again just to reduce that side effect.
My prescription... 1. Play with yourself. 2. Have more sex. (even if you don't feel like it at first it may change). 3. Have intimate time without sex. and 4. See your regular Dr about your antidepressant meds.
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