My first inclination was to talk about how having no sex kills romantic relationships from the inside out, but I think a better comment might be that sex is something wonderful, best served (in my opinion) with someone you love, and part of healthy romantic relationships.
I would make sure that the problem is something to do with sex with another person first, though. If you get uptight about self-stimulation, I'd ask why that is and suggest the problems might be related. I'm guessing from your post you aren't getting yourself off either. That's something positive that you can build on.
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