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Old 01-06-2009, 05:45 PM   #13 (permalink)
StellaLuna
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It is believed that this happens because of pressure from the baby's head on its mother's all-important hypogastric and pelvic nerve systems.

These nerves play a part in a woman's ability to experience vaginal, cervical and G-spot orgasms. Explaining orgasmic birth, OB-GYN Dr. Christiane Northrup said that as the baby moves through the birth canal, it actually stimulates all the pathways involved in sexual pleasure. Plus the stages of natural childbirth mimic one's normal sexual response in some ways; for example, breathing becomes faster and deeper.
Okay. No. Congratulations to those women who DO experience vaginal orgasms. You have to practically beat the hell out of my clitoris (NOT complaining) but I don't see that mentioned here. And, according to my doctor, one of the stages of natural childbirth that I get to look forward to is screaming back labor. I don't remember that being part of my normal sexual response. I guess I'm just really sick of hearing about this. It seems like yet another way to say to a woman (who isn't having a birthing orgasm in a baby pool in her living room while staring blissfully at everyone she's ever met), "Ur doin it wrong!"
I'm not sure why I'm so pissed off about this. I guess I feel like I spend day after day being told I'm not skinny enough, or sexy enough, or not <insert societal media-craze here> enough, and now all of a sudden the ONE THING that I can maybe get "right" as a woman I'm not able to do right ENOUGH because I can't have a vaginal orgasm.
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