I would be upset that my husband didn't tell me he wanted to experiment with a man, and I would want to know why he didn't trust me with those thoughts.
I'd also want to get a clean bill of health from both of them, ASAP.
Provided he has a reasonable explaination (not sure what that might be) and no one had HIV, I wouldn't be too mad. I know men give better head than women and I know completely straight men who have gay oral-only fuckbuddies for this reason.
I don't think he'll be "turning gay" anytime soon so I am not concerned about him having a serious affair or leaving me for a man. The "Why didn't you tell me" issue is the real biggie.
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