I still keep in touch with my first. Its been over 20 years. We seem to go in phases-there will be times when we talk every week and then we will go through a phases where we won't talk for a year or more. Right now we are heading into the year or more phase and I think that maybe this will be the end of us keeping in touch. We live about 200 miles apart now and we are both married and my wife doesn't care for her. I don't know how her spouse feels about me since I've only talked to him in person once. Part of me would be happy with not talking to her again-I'm all for keeping the past in the past but other times I wish we would talk. We were best friends before and even shortly after we dated and I always enjoyed talking with her.
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