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Originally Posted by noodle
Yes, there's a hymen.
Without a mirror or flashlight, I'm not exactly sure how people are seeing them since they're higher than a tampon can reach.
I think that virginity based on the presence of a hymen is an incredibly outdated way of determining if a female has been sexually active.
But, yes, the physical presence of a hymen in many women has been proven.
I did feel a lot of pain with intercourse the first time related to the stretching but it was a whole different ballgame when he hit, then pushed through mine.
I'm a believer.
But I think that medical professionals have done enough studies now to be able to determine that some girls are born without and that there are plenty of other ways for that particular piece of the body to get torn or "broken" than intercourse.
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So you think it's up high in the vagina, most believers say it's actually outside! The point is there a very few studies. And the very few scientific studies that have been done whether on adults or on raped vs non raped children shows no difference in the vagina opening from pre to post sex. The point is that the vagina's entrance can be more or less uniform looking, THAT'S ALL... In the rare cases where a septate type entrance can be observed, it's a malformation and in no way informs us about normal women!!!
There are two reasons people feel pain on the first time. 1-lack of lubrication (meaning one of the 2 participants didn't do their job right) and 2- (if totally lubricated) then psychological: The sensation of something larger than a finger entering for the first time is surprising and thht is equated to pain.
The studies on raped little girls show that unless there is vagina damage per se, there is no distinct "membrane damage" since there is no "membrane". All there is a lumpy looking opening.
Dear you really need to start spending more time enjoying your vagina, and please don't misinforming your children that way.