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Originally Posted by 44phoenix
I have a FWB, and it's hard to not get emotionally involved! We have been friends for over six years, both of us are now divorced, and one thing led to another. I NEVER looked at him that way before and am surprised at how much we have in common. We have the same sick sense of humor and insatiable/curious sex drive, BUT all of that just makes me WANT HIM MORE!!!!
How can a person separate sex and emotions? I can't! To me sex is very intimate, even if it's dirty sex. You are sharing your fantasies, desires, stretch marks, etc. Nothing is off limits so everything is exposed. How can you not have some kind of emotional investment?
As you can see, I need help with this topic too.
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Well, the way I see it, it's not that there's no emotion or intimacy in these types of relationships. Quite the opposite usually. The intimacy is still there, it's just not attached to a relationship. It's kind of hard to explain but that's how I feel at least.
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Originally Posted by bazkitcase5
just to satisfy my curiosity, how does one meet a FB?
is it basically a one night stand that continues? otherwise, how do you meet and figure out that just having sex is something that both of you want?
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My FB relationships have usually come out of one night stands. Mostly a guy or girl that I meet and take home. I've also had FBs that are friends of friends. It's always someone that I don't feel any romantic desires towards.