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I think most of the responders here tried to tell him the key was communication just in different ways. Perhaps not all were done with the most tact or sensitivity. I know in my case I tried to give him an insight on his situation by discussing my own which seems to resemble his very closely.
Also it seems to me that most of the responses to posters problems, especially those with SO's, is just communication. There are only so many ways we can say "go talk to the other person". However if were that easy I'm sure most people are bright enough to do just that, they must be coming to tilted for more than just the same old "communicate" advice. IMO people request advice and opinions on things because they want just that advice and opinions from fellow tfp'ers. I've also noticed lately that a stock answer to some peoples' requests or questions is googleing it. I think thats more lame than a group of members who have not talked before hand giving their advice that seems to be the same.
I was honestly expecting other members to come on and give different views but it appears that only the ones with the same opinion posted. Maybe "driving home" an opinion is a bit much but I would think that it might show his gf is not alone in her thoughts but nor is he alone in his thoughts and wants of wanting more sex, just very few told him so.
I know I wasn't trying to belittle him, hell I want more sex than I am giving out but everything else in my life is preventing me from achieving this. Everyone wants more sex I think or at least likes the idea of it. I hope and cheer for him that he does get more and hope its from the girls he so seems to love. So I guess what I'm saying ultimately is good luck cajeff!
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