I have a FWB, and it's hard to not get emotionally involved! We have been friends for over six years, both of us are now divorced, and one thing led to another. I NEVER looked at him that way before and am surprised at how much we have in common. We have the same sick sense of humor and insatiable/curious sex drive, BUT all of that just makes me WANT HIM MORE!!!!
How can a person separate sex and emotions? I can't! To me sex is very intimate, even if it's dirty sex. You are sharing your fantasies, desires, stretch marks, etc. Nothing is off limits so everything is exposed. How can you not have some kind of emotional investment?
As you can see, I need help with this topic too.
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