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In order to make getting back together with someone work (insofar as not falling back into old patterns), I firmly believe one has to go through the full motions of breaking up and moving on before they can even think about "starting over" or "trying again". There is no starting over in a prolonged break-up situation because it never is over. Not completely.
then again, if she feels the same way and you're both willing enough to make it work, you should give it another try... this type of getting back together, to me, has the continuity that accounts for one relationship. if both people are still on the same page, the 'one relationship' can still keep on going for as long as it will..
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~Anais Nin
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