Been with my wife for 11 years now and wouldn't change a thing. She is a terrific mother, a wonderful wife, and a great friend. We do everything together whenever we can. You know the old saying that two people can't be together 24/7 and make it work? Well me and my wife worked together in the same dealership, drove to work together, home together, interracted 24/7 for 3 years, and the only thing that we both agree sucks right now, is my NEW job won't hire married couples. We LOVED being together all that time. We laugh, we cry together....we talk....and we talk about EVERYTHING. even if one of us does something that might upset the other we talk about it. We never go to bed angry (though there have been a few nights we never slept working everything out!) I couldn't imagine a life without her in it. So yes, you CAN be happy even after many years of being together. But it won't come without compromises and commuication.
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"It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison
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